Doing the dishes

 I enjoy doing the dishes. I sometimes enjoy doing the dishes over doing the cooking or preparing of items. I will wait for everyone to get out of the kitchen or a good handful of people to get out of the kitchen. I then prepare the sink to wash dishes. This may take anywhere from 5 minutes-30 minutes. It could take longer during the holidays. I enjoy doing this in silence and in a certain process and structure of how I do this. It is ok to do it like this. I do it and do it well. This is the most important thing about doing the dishes.

Advice;

 I would wait to get your space for doing the dishes. It is ok; if, like me, you cannot lift the dish you are washing; use the side of the sink to hold up your item to clean and clean it that way. You; like myself may not be able to hold it because the motor skills in the hand may not be the same. It is ok. You can do it just like me. You may do it differently but it is ok it is the way that you need to do it and it is ok to do it as such. It is also ok to ensure that you follow a certain process or structure to ensure that you get the dishes done. I do it; so can you.